Tuesday,
August 12, 2008 at 1:49am
Ladies,
how bad do you feel about yourselves? Honestly!! You must feel like
absolute shit when you look at yourselves in the mirror. If this
isn't the case then tell me why I keep hearing the same damn things.
Tell me why it's okay to just fold your arms and deal with the
boyfriend who cusses at you and obsesses over everything you do.
Please explain to me why getting burnt or hit is just a bump on your
long road of happiness. Has the idea of self respect just died? What
could honestly possess you to want to deal with this bullshit and
make excuses for every “little” thing?
I'm so pissed. I
really don't know what else to say or do because I'm so floored by
how many of my friends are and have been in abusive relationships.
I'm absolutely confused how there are that many guys so apt at
physically and mentally fucking with girls they say they love and
would call their girlfriend. I think I'm even more mentally fogged by
the idea that the girl would put up with that shit for more than a
split second. I just can't swallow it. I can't understand. It is
beyond me, and I've yet to hear one coherent explanation for why it's
even vaguely possible. When your boyfriend incessantly calls and
texts and inquires about your whereabouts and who've you've been
hanging out with and why you weren't with him on such and such night,
THERE IS A PROBLEM. When your boyfriend calls you literally 20 or
more times in a row to ask an all to familiar question “Where the
fuck are you?” THERE IS A PROBLEM. If he pushes, hits, or bruises
you, I don't even understand why I should have to say THIS IS A
FUCKING PROBLEM. I constantly say how people can't be trusted, how
they are pathetic and waste their lives, please, I'm literally
begging at this point, don't reduce yourself to that level by calling
yourself my friend, playing me off when I explain the problem I see,
and continue putting up with this.
This is adding ever more
justification to my position that distrusts relationships. If there
are this many girls who have or are willing to put up with this much
bullshit for the sake of saying I love you and claiming a boyfriend,
how can you expect someone to be honest enough with themselves, and
you, to point out when there's a problem? You’re never going to
find out the person you’re supposed to be with when you have to
justify everything they do in light of the relationship facade. My
suggestion, kick his ass, talk to your parents, talk to a teacher,
call the cops, break up with him, and hey, maybe even find a new
boyfriend. While I'm sure there are girls who say “O well, I would
never let that happen to me, I'm not in an abusive relationship,”
all I can say is at this rate, one of your friends is or has been.
You are a shitty friend if you play along with them.
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Josh
Stacker
(Merrillville Senior High School) wroteat
9:32am on August 12th, 2008
While this
is so true... most girls will read it and still do
nothing...thats just the way it is...but at least its out here
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Brandy
Dieterle
(Purdue University Calumet) wroteat
10:53am on August 12th, 2008
I honestly
don't think you will ever understand what it's like unless
you've been there which is still no excuse. It's just not
something that you can explain and get someone to understand if
they haven't experienced something even remotely close
themselves. Oh, and I do feel like shit when I look at myself
in the mirror. I feel terrible about myself for allowing things
to happen that I now know shouldn't have. Granted it took me
like..I dunno, 4 years of shit before I figured it out. The
whole time I had people telling me it wasn't good but I
wouldn't believe them because I so desperately wanted to be
loved (although now I know that wasn't being loved).
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Billy
Bowman
(Bloomington, IN) wroteat
5:19pm on August 12th, 2008
I agree
with you completely Nick.. but... people are just.. stupid.. i
don't know why.. they just can't see to.. think.. or see.. the
obvious..
Most people are guilty of it, on some level or
another.. and i'm not just talking about this example.. it's
everything.. everywhere.. there's no hope for the world..
sigh..
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I'll only
partly agree with you on this one. Fear can get to people. They
should realize it's abusive before they get stuck in it. People
are dumb in the fact that they let themselves get into the
relationship due to being lonely or whatnot. But once they're
in it for a while, thats when the fear of calling cops starts
getting to them, and outside help is needed.
Can you
realize it's getting close to school time again? K201 here I
come :( |
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Billy
Bowman
(Bloomington, IN) wroteat
8:12am on August 13th, 2008
It's not
really abuse if he enjoys it.. |
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Mickey
Woods
(Los Angeles, CA) wroteat
1:02pm on August 14th, 2008
THANK YOU
FOR POSTING THIS!!
It's about fucking time someone besides
me actually has the gall to think and say these things. Girls
are incredibly stupid when it comes to this stuff......
Which
may only partially explain my sexual orientation.... just
sayin'.... |
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Nick
P.
wroteat
5:42pm on August 15th, 2008
Ha, no
matter how much this pisses me off, I've never been so angry at
a girl that I started wanting cock lmao.
But ya, I'm
saying it, I don't think it is about the girl necessarily being
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